IECA - Independent Educational Consultants Association NOT International Erosion Control Association. Both are IECA.
Either way, the word Independent says a lot.
"not influenced or controlled by others in matters of opinion, conduct, etc.; thinking or acting for oneself: an independent thinker"
"not subject to another's authority or jurisdiction; autonomous; free: an independent businessman."
"not influenced by the thought or action of others: independent research"
Just to name a few ...................
Yes ..... it was 2005. I do not not know what the membership Bylaws say, or if there are even any membership Bylaws. Was the refusal to attend the IECA conference based on bias or discrimination? I believe it was based on fear.
True, IECA has the right to accept their own members. And I was not asking to be a member. I had already made the determination several years earlier that membership in IECA did not meet my own business, ethical, personal or professional needs. I was wanting to attend one of their conferences with some associates, who also were not members.
It would have given me the opportunity to gain some knowledge at the break out sessions and to network with others in the industry that I so passionately adore and give my life to. The reason I was refused entrance into the conference was because, as the letter from the Board of Directors states, I do not meet their professional ethics and they have some concerns. No further explanation. No details. And even though I responded with a professionally written letter to the Board of Directors, about my concerns, I received no response, ever.
(You can view the entire original documentation in my book - One Size Does Not Fit All). Obviously this is true in more ways that I have ever imagined when I started the book.
Every time there is an IECA conference I get asked by many associates, other Educational Consultants, and those who work for many of the programs I recommend, if I will be at the conference.
The "story" is boring to me now, although when I tell it I always get the same response - "Are you kidding? Are you serious? Is this for real? I have never heard of such a thing!".
Several people have even offered to pay my way to the next conference as they just want me to show up anyway.
I have no interest and I would not waste my time. No offense to those choosing to attend. If anything, this action by IECA confirmed to me more than ever why it is I choose not to be a member and why it would not have been a good fit for me, or for them. I am not asking for any sympathy. Quit that! Really!!
I have been told by many that I am the only person in the history of IECA that has been refused entry into a conference. Maybe ask Mark Sklarow about that just to be sure. That is pretty cool. Making history, as we have seen recently in our current Presidential Election, is a great thing most times.
"CHANGE"
"WE CAN"
I understand that every organization has goals and I assume intentions as to what they hope to accomplish.
And every organization such as IECA has a Board of Directors that can determine how aggressively they want to exercise their power. Obviously. And I understand that IECA can choose to limit their membership to those they want and refuse those they do not want. I am absolutely okay with that. I was not bidding to be a member. I simply wanted to attend a conference with some friends in the industry. Yes, they did return my conference fee with a letter from the Board of Directors, via Federal Express. I did lose out when I had to cancel my flight however, although I reused the tickets later with a $100 penalty. Whatever it was that brought them to this decision, I am okay with that. Really.
Being that they did not respond to my request for further conversations about their concerns, I can only assume they reacted based on fear of some sort. It happens. Actually, I am not sure any organization can actually refuse to let anyone attend, or rather be in the same hotel as the conference and network with others who are there. The refusal was more about attending their conference and being allowed to join in the break out sessions they offer. And maybe breakfast or lunch or something. However, it is so very expensive to attend these conferences, why would I waste my time after being "told" not to attend? I get to see almost everyone at NATSAP and other conferences and I see a lot of these people when I am touring programs and schools. I also live in a beautiful place - Bend, Oregon, and many people love to come here and always call and we get together. Interestingly, some want to keep our meetings confidential.
Now, that being said, I am well acquainted with a lot of great people who are members of IECA and with those who spend thousands of dollars attending their conferences as Vendors when their is a conference, so they can promote their program and school. And IECA has been around for more than 30 years. I have gathered many stories over the last 3 years about experiences and I know that for the most part, their heart is in the right place. No organization can monitor everyone 100% of the time. Even with Ethics Guidelines and Principles of Good Practice. It is just impossible.
I also have referred many parents to IECA members when what they needed was out of my expertise or a parent wanted someone in their local area for a face to face relationship. Many different Educational Consultants have many different areas of speciality. I have even been contacted by IECA members who have a particularly tough situation with a student and knew I would have references on who to refer them to for additional assistance.
Membership aside, most people in this industry want to do what is in the best interest of a child and their family.
So, I have moved on and I hope this will assist those in the future who still need and want to hear "the story".
I am proud to say that I am an honored member of the American Bar Association, Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates, and the National Association of Therapeutic Schools and Programs.
And, being that San Francisco is my hometown I may actually be around for the IECA Spring Conference. I am meeting with a friend who works for the San Francisco Chronicle around the same time to discuss my book, and maybe a story or two about the industry. Perhaps I will see you there!
Dore E. Frances, M.A., A.C.C.
Founder, Horizon Family Solutions, LLC
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